Dear BMW, My man of two years is ‘saved’ and can speak in 100 tongues. He consults the heavens whenever he is in a tight situation. He prays before sex and calls his pastor or prophet ‘Daddy’ and the prophet’s wife ‘Mamma or Mammi’. Months can pass without him touching me and when I ask…

Dear BMW, First let me confess that although ndine mayi wa Mvano (a member of the women’s guild), I enjoy reading your column. In fact, every Sunday I dash out to buy this paper, sometimes even using the money I wanted kupereka ku church. If truth be told, Biggie you know how to tickle and…

Dear BMW, Well, my child’s runaway father just made a surprise appearance into my life the other day, all smiles ready to assume his responsibilities 10 years later! The idiot bolted and ran the minute he found out I was pregnant. We had only known each other for a short time. I was young and…

Dear BMW, My friends and I are in that prime age where we attract women from both spectrums—younger ones in college and older ones inching fast towards 45. In bars and nightclubs, travelling in public buses has become a bit scary. The number of times women hit on me are a bit unsettling. What is…

Dear Big One,   I have a problem. My fiancé and I have been together for six years. But what worries me the most is that recently he has started ignoring me. When I text him. It takes two good days for him to find the energy to respond. Every time I ask why he does…

Dear BMW, I am a 34-year-old single man who recently moved to Lilongwe from Blantyre due to my demanding and well-paying job. My neighbour in Lilongwe, who I will call Alice is a free-minded woman. She is open about bedroom matters and really does not care much about what comes out of her mouth. Her…