BMW, I am a married mother of one. My man is a darling, he comes home every night. He brings home his wages so that we don’t have to fight. We have been married for five years and we have a lovely four-year-old daughter as the pride of our home. My husband is charming, humble,…

  Dear BMW, First, let me confess that although ndine mayi wa mvano (a member of the Women’s Guild), I enjoy your column very much. In fact, every Sunday I dash out to buy this paper, sometimes even using the money I wanted kupereka ku church. If truth be told, Biggie you know how to…

Dear BMW, I am a 34-year-old married man. My wife literary does nothing in the house. If she is not at a bridal shower, wedding, her friend’s birthday party or village bank meeting, she is at the pub drinking all night long. The few hours she spends at home, after work, and her frequent business…

Dear Biggie, I am a female college student studying soil science. My problem is that it seems I attract the wrong crowd due to my looks. I am not being mean to average-looking Malawian girls, but BMW I am too beautiful. For you to get the picture, I am light-skinned, tall with an hour-glass figure,…

Dear BMW, I am 28-year-old girl and I live with my older sister. Lately, she has been grumpy. She smashes plates, burns food when she is cooking and shouts at the maid like a maniac. When I asked about her sudden hot temper, I learnt with shock that she has not had sex with her…

Dear BMW, My man of two years is ‘saved’ and can speak in 100 tongues. He consults the heavens whenever he is in a tight situation. He prays before sex and calls his pastor or prophet ‘Daddy’ and the prophet’s wife ‘Mamma or Mammi’. Months can pass without him touching me and when I ask…

Dear BMW, First, let me apologise for bringing tribal issues on this forum, where you only deal with sex-related issues. But I am bothered and I need your help. I am a 24-year-old college graduate based here in South Africa. I have a girlfriend of three years whom I intend to marry. However, my problem…

Dear BMW, First let me confess that although ndine mayi wa Mvano (a member of the women’s guild), I enjoy reading your column. In fact, every Sunday I dash out to buy this paper, sometimes even using the money I wanted kupereka ku church. If truth be told, Biggie you know how to tickle and…

Dear BMW, Well, my child’s runaway father just made a surprise appearance into my life the other day, all smiles ready to assume his responsibilities 10 years later! The idiot bolted and ran the minute he found out I was pregnant. We had only known each other for a short time. I was young and…

Dear BMW, My friends and I are in that prime age where we attract women from both spectrums—younger ones in college and older ones inching fast towards 45. In bars and nightclubs, travelling in public buses has become a bit scary. The number of times women hit on me are a bit unsettling. What is…

Dear Big One,   I have a problem. My fiancé and I have been together for six years. But what worries me the most is that recently he has started ignoring me. When I text him. It takes two good days for him to find the energy to respond. Every time I ask why he does…