Dear Biggie, I am a girl aged 23, a tech freak studying ICT at one of the private colleges in Blantyre. I am a nude’s maniac. My obsession for nudes started way back in 2009, when smart phones popped up on the market. It all started with taking simple semi-nude selfies and posting them on…

Dear Big Man Wamkulu My husband is a drunkard. Once he is drunk he becomes a village idiot. He insults everyone in our community. Recently, he insulted our neighbour, my pastor and even the gravediggers (adzukulu) during the funeral of my grandmother. He was beaten to a pulp for that. But my worst nightmare is…

Dear BMW, I love reading your column and, honestly, you solve problems that often are swept under the carpet. On many occasions, you have opened my eyes with the way you view the world. Thank you Biggie, with you this world is a better place. Here is my problem. I am 25 and recently got…

Dear Big Man Wamkulu, I am 27, an alcoholic and my wife is still studying at one of the technical colleges in the country. Together, we have a child. I impregnated my wife while we were in primary school.  Since leaving secondary school, I have not been lucky to get a real job, apart from…

BMW, I am in a fix. My boss is short-tempered like Trump and uses abusive language. The funny thing is that before all this drama, he was my friend in college. However, everything changed when he discovered that the girl, who is now his wife, was my college girlfriend and I am the one who…

Dear Biggie, Last week, I enjoyed your entry: “My man is a porn addict”. While reading it I realised that in my house I also have an addict; my wife. She is not into porn, hashish or some illegal drug, but she is a WhatsApp addict to boot. How is that possible, you may ask…

Dear Biggie, I think my boyfriend is a porn addict. I made a mistake of hacking his accounts on his laptop and phone. What I have seen, Biggie, this man is more evil than Donald Trump. His laptop is full of adult movies. The websites he visits are all dirty sites. Even the groups he…

Hi Biggie Biggie, I am in love with a woman whom I have dated for five years. After loving and sharing so many memorable moments with her, I realised she is too old for me. When I am with her I feel sad. When we are out together I feel like everyone is laughing at…