Dear BMW, Well, my child’s runaway father just made a surprise appearance into my life the other day, all smiles ready to assume his responsibilities 10 years later! The idiot bolted and ran the minute he found out I was pregnant. We had only known each other for a short time. I was young and…

Dear BMW, My friends and I are in that prime age where we attract women from both spectrums—younger ones in college and older ones inching fast towards 45. In bars and nightclubs, travelling in public buses has become a bit scary. The number of times women hit on me are a bit unsettling. What is…

Dear BMW, I am a 34-year-old single man who recently moved to Lilongwe from Blantyre due to my demanding and well-paying job. My neighbour in Lilongwe, who I will call Alice is a free-minded woman. She is open about bedroom matters and really does not care much about what comes out of her mouth. Her…

Dear Biggie, I am a girl aged 23, a tech freak studying ICT at one of the private colleges in Blantyre. I am a nude’s maniac. My obsession for nudes started way back in 2009, when smart phones popped up on the market. It all started with taking simple semi-nude selfies and posting them on…

Dear Big Man Wamkulu My husband is a drunkard. Once he is drunk he becomes a village idiot. He insults everyone in our community. Recently, he insulted our neighbour, my pastor and even the gravediggers (adzukulu) during the funeral of my grandmother. He was beaten to a pulp for that. But my worst nightmare is…

Dear BMW, I love reading your column and, honestly, you solve problems that often are swept under the carpet. On many occasions, you have opened my eyes with the way you view the world. Thank you Biggie, with you this world is a better place. Here is my problem. I am 25 and recently got…

Dear Big Man Wamkulu, I am 27, an alcoholic and my wife is still studying at one of the technical colleges in the country. Together, we have a child. I impregnated my wife while we were in primary school.  Since leaving secondary school, I have not been lucky to get a real job, apart from…