BMW
I am 30 and my wife is 37. We have been together for five years. We have two kids. Since we married, she has been paying all the bills since I am jobless.
She recently ventured into a business with some man I have met once. Her business has skyrocketed and we’ve had the luxury of getting to treat ourselves.
My wife has always been a good looking woman. Has a nice behind and full chest. But with tones of money in her account, she’s made some significant changes to her wardrobe and body, and she really is gorgeous.
She goes away for a lot of business trips and that’s fine. She would come home and share about her trip and say how so and so hit on her and what not. I’m secure in my marriage as we are both Christians so I am not overly bothered.
But before she left last week on her business trip which will take five days, she asked for “permission to entertain not in a sexual way” that person she frequently does business with as it was good for our business.
I said no. I can’t help, but worry that she’s going to ignore me and meet him. I’m just stressed out about it. Help a brother, please?
House Hubby
V ia W h a t s A p p, New Shire Area 49, Lilongwe.
Dear House Hubby,
I think it’s high time you started looking for your own house because your wife has been cheating for a long time, way before her hotness overhaul.
Hotness overhaul is one of the most obvious signs that a woman has found a new suitor. On this, I am 100 percent right.
In fact, her asking for your permission is a sign she’s going to move on with her plans to sleep with him again and this was her final attempt to see if she could have both worlds, the proverbial cake and eating it too.
Yo u s ay yo u a r e stressed, oh you better start sweating because y o u r m a r r i a g e i s definitely on the rocks.
My brother, how can you stay with a person who think’s infidelity is acceptable enough to ask for permission? It’s not always about the act but the heart and convictions that one has to reach this point.
A woman could be ‘loyal’ all day, but if she believes in her heart that ‘permission to entertain other men’ aren’t reprehensible, she’s for the streets!
Pepa mbele wanga. Star t job hunting to support yourself now. Iyi yalakwa.
Big Man Wankulu
