Candid Talk
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Let’s talk about gender-based violence
As the world commemorates 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence (GBV), now would be a good time to have…
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When a woman’s desperation for love backfires
You see, looking for love can feel like an extreme sport. But when that search turns into desperation, the stakes…
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Who is responsible for funding a relationship?
So, love is meant to be enjoyed, celebrated, and mutually beneficial for both people involved. For a relationship to thrive,…
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Let us face it, age is not just a number, it matters
So, there is this famous saying that age is just a number. Well, I don’t know who started this…
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Take responsibility for your part in the mess
It is almost cliche to hear the broken hearted tell every soul that cares to listen about how hurt they…
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Chibwenzichi chakhalitsatu: When a relationship refuses to grow
In our society, it’s no secret that young people often date for personal and relationship growth. However, there are instances…
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Dating a married: Who is to blame?
My beautiful friend Lindani Assani this week started a debate on her Facebook page on cheating and infidelity. She wrote:…
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What if you are the ‘red flag’?
Oftentimes when relationships fail or when we face serious challenges, we blame it on the partner. We lament that we…
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Are you acting single while married?
The other day as I walked the streets of Blantyre, I came across a couple. From my observation, they were…
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Do not expect us to inherit your enemies
Imagine this scenario; you have two friends who fell out and became enemies. They do not get along and bicker…
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