He has gone back to Baby Mama
BMW,
I know that sometimes you give strange pieces of advice to those people who find themselves in situations that need some enlightenment. But that does not stop me from knocking at your door BMW because of the situation I am in. Sometime back, say three years ago, I started going out with a married man and one thing led to another and before long, he left the Baby Mama for me.
Our affair has received a lot of disapproval from my relations but I was not bothered because we loved each other.
What has bothered me though is that as we got closer to our planned wedding, I discovered that the Baby Mama still visits and even sleeps in my man’s house every time I am away on business. As if that is not enough, I once caught him with some lady from the neighbourhood who I hear is one of his numerous girlfriends.
Now, my question is: how do I handle him, BMW? I am asking because I am not prepared to leave him. I have invested a lot in him and cannot not just lose everything at this stage. Wadya zanga zambiri ndipo ndafa kwambiri. What should I do to stop Baby Mama and others?
Please help.
Sakina,
Lilongwe
Hey Sakina,
What your dear is looking for you don’t have, unfortunately. The Baby Mama has money, which apparently you do not have. Which puts you at a very unfortunate position.
You seem to have information and intelligence on Baby Mama’s movements with your man. That, for me, pits you as you end up being a square among triangles. Follow her. If you can’t, follow him.
Had it been in my latter days, I could have told you that you are dumb, very dumb. You know your problem and you know your solution, and you bother me to give you ngati ndikupereka phala kwa mwana?
Get a life.
You are an absolute desperado. No one can ask that. You are completely out of the league. You are relegated. You are repudiated to the trash can.
That is simply because of your indecisions.
Furthermore, you have an obscure sense of self-esteem. You mean, at a point where your mate is trying to score some scores on cheating with a Baby Mama, you can’t know when to move on? And you want to marry him?
Mabanja akusowa amwene, but then don’t act cheap. You will only have yourself to blame when you realise that the ring he will put on your finger is not a penny worth of your anticipation.
If I were you, I would move away. Walk away. Your relatives know something but you choose to ignore it. You do it at your own peril. And, you will have no shoulder to cry on if you forsake
The way to handle him is, let him go. Or, better still, move out. He is cheating on you clearly before you guys are married and you are just breathing?
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