She is very elusive, loves money
Biggie,
I have been working for some local non-governmental organisation for two years now. I am really enjoying my work, and I know even when the contract ends, it will be a good springboard for me to get another job. Yes, of course, God willing.
There is this other girl that I have been dating for some six months or so. I love her, to say the least, and I do wish she could return my love so that we become the item we are meant to be.
I have two problems with her that put me off. She just loves money. When I say hi to her, the next thing she will say is I need to go to the saloon; I want some airtime; and my mum is sick.
As if that were not enough, these past weeks, she told me I should stop calling her. She says I should not text her. She should be the first to text me. On the calls, she also says she should call first.
I have never been blasted. Asking her why, she says her phone is mostly with her mum.
Imagine Biggie, imagine!
Now what do I do? What do you make of all this?
TN,
TN,
You are stuck between a hard rock and the deep sea. In the first place, I can smell Yoneco knocking on your door because you are dating an under-aged girl. How else do you date someone whose phone is constantly in the hands of her mother?
In that case, I will tell you, run for your dear life.
But then, this one may not be a minor. I see traits of a slay queen up to rip the last penny off your pockets. She will squeeze the last
coin out of your account, the way she squeezes Colgate out of the tube, mpaka kung’amba tube kuti atheretu.
If she is this last kind, then you should know that you are not alone. You are part of her scheme to raise money from men just like that.
You would be surprised one day if you checked her contacts list, your number may be saved as Wa Fuel. There you can find other contacts like Wa Bread, Wa Boots, etc.
You have been sponsoring her and today she has the nerve to tell you she will be the one calling you. Why should she be the one calling the shots? You are in trouble bwana.
You ask me for advice, I will tell you call her at night using a different number. I bet you two tambala for an odd that her blesser, the one who pays the most of her bills, will be answering your call.
Kumachenjera
